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Group of friends laughing and having fun together

THE WORLD'S FIRST CONSENT-BASED CONNECTION PLATFORM

Find your person. Find your people.

Every dating app and friend finder on the internet exposes you to everyone. On Deck Society hands you full control over who can see you. It works for dating. It works for friendship. It will work for finding anyone for anything after that.

Enter Love On DeckEnter Friends On Deck
ViSi
Find your person
Dashboard
ViltersSilters

Visible to 11 Lovers. Hidden from everyone else.

Who can see you
Age29 to 38
DistanceUnder 20 miles
SmokingNever
KidsOpen to it
Both directions must clear
ViSi
Find your person
Dashboard
ViltersSilters

Visible to 11 Lovers. Hidden from everyone else.

Who can see you
Age29 to 38
DistanceUnder 20 miles
SmokingNever
KidsOpen to it
Both directions must clear

HOW IT WORKS

Everyone has search filters. Only we have visibility filters.

Search Filters control who you see. Every app has a version of this. Ours are just good. We call them Silters.

Visibility Filters control who can see you. Nobody else has this. Set them, and anyone who does not meet your standards never sees your deck, never messages you, and never learns you exist here at all.

We call them Vilters, and they are the whole reason this works differently.

Both directions have to clear before either person appears. Not after a swipe. Not after you have already been shown to somebody who was never going to be right. Before.

The engine underneath all of it is called ViSi.

See how ViSi works
Y
You
VilterAge 29 to 38
VilterUnder 20 miles
SilterReads
Your Vilters
Both clear
Their Vilters
T
Them
VilterNonsmoker
VilterWants kids
SilterHikes

ONE ACCOUNT, EVERYTHING

Become a Citizen. Pick where you want to be.

You sign up once and you verify once. That part you never do again.

Everything after that is per product. Love On Deck has its own deck and its own filters. So does Friends On Deck. What you want in a partner is not what you want in a Sunday hiking friend, and your standards should not have to pretend otherwise.

Join for one thing. Stay for the rest. That is how it was built.

C
Citizen
Signed up once. Verified once.
Love deck
Own filters
Friends deck
Own filters
Next deck
As we build it

WHAT IS OPEN NOW

Two ways in, so far

Live now
M
Marcus, 36
NonsmokerWants kidsReads

Love On Deck

The world's first consent-based dating app. Live now.

No swiping. No algorithm ranking you. No feed built to keep your thumb moving at midnight. You search, you find people who cleared your filters and whose filters you cleared, you send a message. A reply is a match.

Enter Love On Deck
Live now
D
Dani, 29
Weekend daysLive music and showsBig group

Friends On Deck

The world's first consent-based friend finder. Live now.

Adult friendship is hard for logistical reasons, not because you are bad at it. Friends On Deck is built around when you are actually free, what you actually want to do, and how far you will actually drive. Everyone signs a platonic declaration, and it is enforced.

See Friends On Deck
People scrolling on phones

WHY ANY OF THIS EXISTS

The apps you have heard of are not broken

They work perfectly. Just not for you.

Every one of them makes money on the gap between what you want and what you get. Show you too many people, and you cannot choose. Show you to too many people, and your inbox fills with strangers who never had a chance. Keep you scrolling, keep you subscribed, keep you exactly one match away from being done.

That is not a bug they have not gotten around to fixing. It is the product.

We built a company on the opposite bet. If you control who sees you, you get less noise and better people, and you spend less time here. We would rather have you for ten years at twenty minutes a day than for eight months at three hours.

THE STRUCTURE

We put it in the charter

On Deck Society is a Delaware Public Benefit Corporation. Our obligation to the people in the Society is a legal one, not a values page.

Every Citizen has the Lovers' Bill of Rights. Forty eight of them, written down, published, and binding on us.

Read the Bill of Rights
48
rights
  • Written down
  • Published
  • Binding on us

EVERYTHING ON DECK

The mechanic does not care what you are looking for

Consent-based search works the same whether you are looking for a partner, a friend, a bandmate, a running group, a therapist, or a table on a Friday night.

Everything On Deck is the long version of that sentence. Same account, same rule that nobody sees you unless you both agreed. More ways in, as we build them.

  • A partnerOpen
  • A friendOpen
  • A bandmateIn build
  • A running groupIn build
  • A therapistIn build
  • A table on a Friday nightIn build

ROADMAP

What is coming

Love On Deck, live now. Friends On Deck, live now. Forge On Deck, in testing. Vibes On Deck and the rest of Everything On Deck, in build.

We do not announce dates we are not going to hit.

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Find your person. Find your people.

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