The category we created. In a consent-based dating app, both people must pass each other’s filters before either can see the other.
Ten articles on what it is, why it matters, and how it works. Read them in order or jump to whatever caught your eye.
Consent-based dating is a new category where both people must pass each other's filters before either can see the other. Here is how it work...
Read article →The difference between consent-based dating and Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge is not features. It is architecture. Here is what changes.
Read article →Consent is the missing piece in 50 years of dating technology. Here is the timeline, and why it took until 2026 to build an app that runs on...
Read article →Vilters are visibility filters that control who can see you. No other dating app has them. Here is how they work and what they let you do.
Read article →Silters are search filters that control who you see. Every app has them. Most do them badly. Here is how they work on Love On Deck.
Read article →Tinder and Hinge use mutual match to claim consent-based architecture. They do not have it. Here is the structural difference.
Read article →Tinder owns a patent on swipe-based mutual matching. ViSi is a different architecture. Here is the plain-English explanation of why it does...
Read article →The rights every dating-app user should have, and which existing apps violate. This is the framework that consent-based dating is built to p...
Read article →A common objection: consent-based dating is just filtering with extra steps. Here is why bidirectional pre-display filtering is structurally...
Read article →Why pre-display consent is the ethical baseline for dating apps. The argument from autonomy, the argument from harm reduction, and the count...
Read article →Find out exactly what you will not put up with.
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