How Love On Deck Works: The Complete Guide
Step 1: Sign Up and Build Your Deck
Create your account at OnDeckSociety.com. Instead of writing a tiny bio, you build a pitch deck. Think of it as a multi-slide presentation of who you actually are. Photos, prompts, demographics, interests, values, and what you're looking for.
It takes more effort than a Tinder profile. That's intentional. The effort itself is a filter. People who take the time to build a real deck are the kind of people you want to meet.
Step 2: Set Your Silters (Search Filters)
Silters control who you see. Set your preferences for age range, distance, gender, and dozens of other attributes. Only people who match your Silters will appear in your search results. Every dating app has some version of this.
Step 3: Set Your Vilters (Visibility Filters)
This is what nobody else has. Vilters control who can see you. Set your standards for who is allowed to know you exist on the platform. Anyone who doesn't meet your Vilters can't see your deck, can't message you, and has no idea you're on Love On Deck.
Step 4: Discover Through Mutual Consent
The ViSi Engine combines your Silters and Vilters with everyone else's. You only see people who match your Silters AND whose Vilters you pass. They only see you if you match their Silters AND they pass your Vilters. Every potential connection starts with mutual consent.
Step 5: Connect
When you find someone whose deck speaks to you, reach out. No swiping. No algorithm deciding who you see first. You read their deck, they read yours, and if there's mutual interest, you start a conversation.
The Invisibility Toggle
Not looking right now? In a relationship? Just want to reserve your spot? Toggle your visibility to invisible. Your account stays active, your founding membership is preserved, and nobody can see you until you decide to go visible. Your spot doesn't expire.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a pitch deck profile?
Instead of a traditional bio, Love On Deck users build a multi-slide pitch deck that shows who they are through photos, prompts, demographics, and personal details. It gives people a real sense of who you are before they reach out.
What are Vilters?
Vilters are visibility filters. They control who can see your profile. If someone doesn't meet your Vilters, they can't see you, message you, or know you exist on Love On Deck. No other dating app has this feature.
Is Love On Deck free?
The first 1,000 members get Free Premium for Life. After that, tiered pricing applies. There's no credit card required for the founding cohort.
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