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Send messages, manage conversations, and connect with matches

How to Send a Message

To message someone, open their deck and tap the "Send Message" button. Write a thoughtful message that references someth...

Messaging Tips and Etiquette

Great messages are specific, respectful, and show genuine curiosity. Reference something from the person's deck to show ...

How to Manage Conversations

All your active conversations are organized in the messages tab. You can see your most recent messages, unread conversat...

Can Someone Message Me Without Matching

On Deck does not require a traditional "match" before messaging. If someone can see your deck in their discovery feed, m...

How to Delete a Conversation

To delete a conversation, open your messages tab and find the conversation you want to remove. Tap the options menu (thr...

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